It’s been a while since I shared some knitting/crafting projects–mostly because I hardly ever finish anything! But I have been whipping up a few items for our new little girl friends. I’m really having fun making things for girls as you can, uh, see…

Our cousins welcomed their new little girl, J, into the world last month, so I knitted this vest for her:

sweater for J

I’m especially pleased about the yarn on the buttons following a pattern as I didn’t even plan that. Go, yarn! And this was for Heather’s daughter, N (who’s already 5 months old – crazy!):

dress for N

And this is for C, due to make her debut at the end of July:

sail away sweatersail away sweater

boy in the bucket
“Wut? you’ve never seen a boy in a bucket readin about trucks? Lea’me be, ma.”

Within the last couple months, Seth has really gotten good at answering questions and telling us what he wants by either nodding or shaking his head. Occasionally it seems arbitrary; I’ll ask, “Are you a monkey?” and he’ll nod (every time! At least he’s consistent in his thinking that he’s a monkey :] ). But for the most part, it really is him communicating his preferences and needs to us, whether or not we ask.

Also starting a few months ago, Seth lets us know that he notices when he pees. For a week there he was even peeing on purpose when we would change his diaper (we thought that was only a newborn thing!). This has really ramped up within the past month, because he has a spot of rash that gets aggravated with cloth diapers. I have been putting him in ’sposies often because it helps a lot more than constant changes and diaper cream do. But he’s also about to graduate to the next size of disposable diapers, which of course means less diapers per package for the same price — not to mention feeling bad already for using and throwing away disposable diapers.

A couple friends use “Elimination communication” with their kids, and I knew a little bit about it already from Our Babies, Ourselves: How Biology and Culture Shape the Way We Parent. I checked out a book on EC yesterday just to start learning more, and read all of about 10 pages, when I decided that we might as well get a potty now. We would have to get one eventually, right?

Which leads us to today: I asked Seth if he would like to get a potty to use. He nodded emphatically, and yipped and yelled with excitement. We picked one up at the consignment store, and stationed it in the bathroom. I hadn’t really thought how it would work beyond that, but Seth wanted to use it right away. He peed a little in the potty, and then a little on the floor (mostly Mama’s fault, as I’m obviously a slower learner than he is), and then some more in the potty. We poured the contents into the real potty, and waved bye-bye to it. Then because the remaining clothes got wet, I let Seth run around naked for a while. He was thrilled about that also. I put him back in diaper & clothes before dinner, but then after dinner he ran into the bathroom and wanted to use the potty again. We took his diaper down, and he peed in the potty again! Since it was getting close to bath time anyway, he got some more naked time. During the two naked-times, Seth did have two minor accidents outside the bathroom, but I must say, I’m floored by how much he is into peeing in the potty. I really don’t want to rush or push it (other than finding a good solution for his rash), but it’s almost as if he has been waiting for us to see his readiness for, if not total potty training, at least EC. Woot! now I gotta catch up and read that book!

Case in point of Seth being a great eater: today he and I were putting away our produce for the week, and he just had to tear into a red pepper right then…

Seth & PepperSeth & Pepper

A few months back, one of our priests at church asked if I knew of anyone who could give a talk on Community Supported Agriculture (CSA’s) at our Sunday morning adult education (I work for a farm that has a produce box program similar to a CSA, so the question wasn’t completely out of nowhere ;] ). I volunteered myself, and then put off planning until the very last minute, but in the end, gave what I thought was a pretty nice talk that mentioned CSA’s as part of a larger picture of making sure our food choices are sustainable, and honor Creation.

In preparation of the talk, I finally watched Food, Inc.– if you haven’t seen it, I encourage you to, or you could take Todd’s suggestion and read The Omnivore’s Dilemma instead if you would rather read about than see slaughtering imagery… Long story short, I am a newly minted vegetarian unless I know the source of the meat I’m eating. What do you call that? Ethical omnivore? Flexitarian?

I’m hoping to be gracious about it, and if I’m at someone else’s home and they serve me meat, I’m not going to question, scold or refuse. We went over to Jake and Cerra’s house a few days ago, and when I mentioned that I wouldn’t be having a beef hamburger, Cerra found me an awesome black bean burger in the freezer. That was super accommodating of her, but I don’t expect that everywhere we go. (And plus, I later turned a blind eye and ate a marshmallow…:/ )

I also really have no intention of raising Seth as a vegetarian, nor could I impose a no-meat policy on Todd even if I wanted to, nor do I want to make two separate meals at dinnertime. I’m trying to find a good balance between veggie and meaty meals at home; few enough meat meals to not raise our grocery budget by too much, but enough so that Todd doesn’t go on Arby’s benders on the sly. Todd, lovely guy that he is, spends a lot of time making sure that I don’t feel stressed out as a mostly stay-at-home mama, and is hoping that I don’t feel undue stress by having to make special trips to find “happy” meat, as a friend calls it. So far, I would say that it’s actually renewed my excitement in grocery shopping and cooking. 101cookbooks.com is an all vegetarian recipe blog that is always fun to look at, but I’ve started a delicious account to bookmark the recipes that I think look especially good (and quick and Seth-friendly*). This also gave me an excuse to visit the Grainery, a natural foods store in Burien, for the first time. I probably got way too much joy out of buying french lentils in bulk. Anyway, we’ll see how this goes, but at the very least, I won’t feel guilty every time I sing a round of Old MacDonald to Seth.

*Seth is a really good eater so far. He likes lots of different veggies, and loves rice, other grains and beans (maybe he likes beans a little too much), so it’s less to cater to typical toddler tastes, but more to make sure that it’s something that he and the rest of us will enjoy. :]

New Seth video!

Seth – 16 months from Eel Fang on Vimeo.

Be sure to watch through the false ending… I ran out of music before I ran out of footage. Seth signs for “more”, and after a quick fade-out, more video appears.

The song is “God Been Good To Me”, by the Mighty Walker Brothers, from the excellent Good God! A Gospel Funk Hymnal compilation.

For no other reason than I enjoy looking at other people’s old family photos, here are a few that my dad just sent me:

sarah & betsy
Sarah on the left, me on the right. Sarah’s shirt says, “You can tell when it’s summer in Seattle…the rain feels warmer.” So true.

toddler betsy
Why have I not made anything for Seth with his name blazoned across it?

Gaga & Boppa in uniform
Gaga played the sousaphone in the Marine band, and Boppa was a staff sergeant in the Pacific.

Seth has been running a bit of a fever today. He was cranky this morning, but then it just turned into an all around subdued mood. He fell asleep in the pack&play while I showered (unheard of!), and then napped twice more after that. We spent a lot of time reading, cuddling in bed and just quietly playing. We even watched an entire Wallace & Gromit with him on my lap (twenty minutes of not squirming–also unheard of). After dinner, he was super-active, as is usual in the evenings, but was still a bit warm.

Todd asked, “What if he were like this all the time?” It was really nice being able to cuddle for long periods instead of hugs & kisses on the run, but beyond that, it actually made me appreciate how active Seth normally is. Bouncing and yelling and running around exploring is so very much his personality, that having him behave any other way is just odd…

Climbing the slide

Hey, remember back in January, when we were writing up a multi-part blog extravaganza about Christmas and Seth’s birthday? And do you remember how we just kinda stopped in the middle of telling that story? Even though the MOST AWESOME part of the story hadn’t been recorded yet?

Yeah, we’re bad bloggers. :(

It’s been too long to try to recreate the day-by-day action, but here’s the important stuff.

  • Aria and Ethan came up to visit! They stayed at our house for about a week. It was awesome having them up here, and the highlight of our holiday season.
  • We had a small family birthday party for Seth! We’re still planning on making his half-birthday the day where we really celebrate him with friends and well-wishers, but for his first “true” birthday, we had to do something.
  • Seth’s birthday cake was a harvest cake (zucchini, beets, and carrots) with a goat-cheese frosting. Because we are hippies, you see. It was delicious – even my squash-hating Dad enjoyed it.

Okay, now for the pictures!

Toddler and birthmother playing

Toddler and birthfather playing

Group picture at Pike Place Market near brass pig

Harvest cake with goat cheese frosting

Birthday boy being fed by grandpa

Birthfamily portrait

1. Seth has been obsessed recently with our cookbooks. His favorites are the one with pictures of blueberries in it or the one with a motorcycle on the cover, but he will pull any of them off the shelf and ask us to flip through the pages. He loves pointing at the pictures of food and saying “Yummmmm!” or pointing at a hot stove or charcoal grill and saying “Hhhhhhhhhht!” (his word for “hot”). Needless to say, his two foodie parents are happy with this.

2. Speaking of motorcycles, he’s also been obsessed with those recently. It started shortly after he got to climb on Grandpa’s motorcycle. Ever since then, he’s been excited every time he sees them outside on the road and he loves looking at pictures of them in his books. (As I was in the middle of typing this, Seth and Betsy were looking at his stickers, and he pointed at his motorcycle stickers and then ran to the window, as if to say, “Make motorcycles appear outside!”) The other day, Seth and I spent a good 20 minutes watching videos of motorcycles and stunt riders on YouTube. Having him sit (relatively) still on my lap for 20 minutes almost never happens, so he must have really liked the videos.

Toddler and Grandpa on motorcycle

3. Last night, we went to a Toys’r'Us so that Betsy could look for some more art supplies for Seth. Seth and I played in a different part of the store while she went shopping, and it took no more than 3 minutes for him to pull a foam-rubber battle ax off the shelf and begin laying waste to a display of gift cards near the entrance. Being a berserk viking warrior is also one of his main interests.

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